The southern end of the Northern Neck—White Stone, Irvington and Kilmarnock—has become a haven for retirees, who like the water and the lifestyle, which one describes as “small-town America at its very best.”

by Richard Ernsberger Jr.

8/24/10 7:00 AM

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Westbrook spends most of his time now in Minneapolis, but he still owns the White Fences Vineyard and Winery. You can’t miss it: There are two 40-foot-high corkscrews at the entrance. Jimmy Carter, Westbrook’s friend, is an investor. The two built 19 period-looking, 1,500-square-foot carpenter gothic “tents” on the property, inspired by the church-meeting camps of the middle 1800s. “They sold instantly,” says Carter. He says that 3north, a Richmond-based architectural group, leads a group of investors that will build 25 new homes on the vineyard property. Asked about development, Westbrook says, “There are certainly some people who’d like to see the area frozen in time. I think if it’s thoughtful, people will support it. If it’s irrational and doesn’t seem to fit, people will oppose it.”

These days, Kilmarnock is changing a lot, itself. The town still has few businesses that have been around for decades—the family-owned Lee’s restaurant and the Tri-Star Supermarket among them—but upscale shops are beginning the alter the nostalgic scene along Main Street. Jackie Brown, a Pennsylvania transplant, opened Carried Away Cuisine (the aforementioned gourmet carry-out) in 2002. Chesapeake & Crescent Home, owned by Paula and George Thomasson and specializing in antiques, home furnishings and design, hung its shingle soon after, as did the Main Street Antique Mall. The Pedestal offers custom decorating services. Swank, a new-ish bistro on Main Street, gets high marks from residents. The Rappahannock Art League, a cooperative, also can be found on Main Street, which got a facelift a few years ago. Power lines were buried, new streetlights were installed, and the sidewalks were improved. Thomasson, who practiced law in New Orleans for 30 years, calls Kilmarnock “very eclectic—a good spot. You meet people from all walks of life. It’s not a big city, and yet you have a sophisticated clientele.”

Still, plenty of tradition and local flavor remains. The Carwash Café—a converted gas station—is a favorite place for breakfast and lunch; its stone-ground grits are excellent. In White Stone, Rocket Billy’s has got to be the only roadside trailer in the country selling crab bisque and soft-shell crabs, among the many items on the menu. “We’ve got more in this place than most restaurants,” says Billy Ancarrow, a former Marine who rues the disappearance of watermen’s culture in the area.

Steve Bonner, the owner of the Kilmarnock Antique Gallery, is a font of knowledge about the town. His huge building, where 100 antique dealers rent space, is also the town’s unofficial visitor center. There are shelves full of tourist brochures in the back. “We encourage people to park in our lot and walk the town,” says Bonner, 60. He greeted me with his Yorkshire terrier, Windsor, in his arms—the two are inseparable. Bonner has been working in the building since he was 15—his family ran a wholesale operation. His great grandfather owned a market in the town. Bonner, who played the piano at some store openings in Kilmarnock when he was young, owns a collection of oyster plates, most more than 100 years old and some made by Haviland & Co. (Limoges, France) in the style of its White House china for President Rutherford B. Hayes in 1880.

The southern end of the Northern Neck—White Stone, Irvington and Kilmarnock—has become a haven for retirees, who like the water and the lifestyle, which one describes as “small-town America at its very best.”

by Richard Ernsberger Jr.

8/24/10 7:00 AM

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  • Northern Neck culture and it's future

    I have lived here since 2005. My wife grew up here and she has deep family roots in the Northern Neck. I consider myself a "brought here". ;) This article is great at talking about the Northern Neck's appeal to retired people and summer vacationers.

    My wife and I don't fit either of those categories (and there are a good number of families like us in the Northern Neck with young children).. We are in our early 40s and have a preschool age son. My wife owns a coffee shop in the Lancaster Court House area.

    I have found that the employment issues of the locals (those that have lived here their whole lives), who have been hurt by this economic recession, is a real underlying problem here. Alot of them are suffering due to a major slowdown in construction of second homes and slowdown other jobs available. Also there are a limited number of jobs, and the local workforce can't ALL work in these retail establishments and the limited pool of other jobs. Also a large number of these retail businesses derive a majority of their revenue in the summer months and employee a small number of people in the workforce.

    From November to March, must of these retail businesses are running with a skeleton group of employees... The winter months are very hard for people to retain a job or even find a new job in Lancaster county.

    I personally would like to see a greater focus by local government on economic development and diversification (light manufacturing, high tech, etc...). Tourism money coming to the Northern Neck is not 12 months a year.

    What opportunities exist locally for the kids graduating from High School in Lancaster County? Unless they go to college, their options are limited by our focus purely on tourism type retail businesses.

    The article is great, but the voices and challenges of people raising families and educating their kids don't get enough attention from the local media. However, rosy the picture is presented in this article, the whole truth is harder for people to accept and help change.

    These issues are all below the surface and will not go away without a broader focus on the citizens of Lancaster County. Check the unemployment rate in November, it is very high in Lancaster County historically.

    Posted by Richard Pleasants August 26, 2010 13:35:20

  • Raised not born

    Born and raised, your comment is idiotic. Time moves on, get over it.

    The "come here" snobbery is small-minded and has got to go. Those "come heres" bring vitality and prosperity (and pay taxes). They have more right to be there than you do.

    Posted by August 26, 2010 09:15:47

  • Come-heres

    My grandmother and grandfather moved here in the 30s from Richmond as summer-folk. After they arrived, they were involved in the restoration of Christ Church, the raising of Grace Church,My grandmother wrote several "ditties" about Irvington, including "To Irvington With Love." She died at 104, a come-here. Most come-heres are like that. Welcome!

    Posted by Grid Michal August 26, 2010 07:43:54

  • Come Heres

    The attitude of the Born and Raised commenter is why it is hard for some to ever really feel at home there. I lived there for 20+ years was married to a local and still would be called a "come here". It is a beautiful place to raise children..but growth happens and that is a good thing..welcome it!

    Posted by August 25, 2010 21:00:28

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